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At present I am sitting in my living room . I am using my computer as I have saved files in my account to finish the notes which are stored but unfinished. I am using a stool  to type as key bpord is sitting on another stool  as the computer monitor is TV not regular monitor . There is long story behind it . I am not a good writer or with a degree to be a writer but what I think I share with close friends and somebody I do not know personally like if it is posted in my blog . I like to read and whatever stays in my memory I save and rewrite with my ideas and thoughts. With age we grow mentally and physically look old , we might be weak but with prayer and taking good diet we can save our brain not to damage from emotional breakdown . People , friends and family have their own thinking , liabilities and jobs to fulfill so I prefer to solve any problem myself and if I need support my family leaves no stone unturned to solve it if they can . Otherwise they get resolved by me or with passage of time they are ignored or put in a box for which I do not try to find a key to solve it as I cannot do anything about it so it is better to stay worry free and take care of my own personal health which is most important at this time.  

Following content is taken from  my student who shares with me her blog . A writer makes her daughter a good writer as well which she proved . Do u think? Did you ...

ever thought, how many lives you live, places you go, people you meet, discussions you have,

Moods you change, frowns you make, smiles you throw sometimes affectionately, sometimes as a formality...... in a single day....so, now when you are thinking, you are in the realm of thoughts...a domain that is different from reality....reality is not  complex but the world of thoughts is. It transcends time, people, places....it takes you from heaven to hell in a moment and back too....

Realm of reality is the present moment, like the one now.....I am sitting in my room typing in my notebook...TV playing in the next room...1 P.M. Sunday...the day is cloudy...life is good and fine...that is just what realty is....today...this moment..this time...nothing else, the past is gone, the future is yet to come..but its the world of of reality, the present moment, we are in.

We keep roaming and meandering in the world that is different, that is unreal...the realm of our thoughts..thinking about the past and worrying about the future....its good if the thoughts are happy and productive......we all need to plan our life, think about future.

Indians are family oriented.  Neglect of family definitely tells on one’s psyche.  One may work under pressure and stress to keep one’s job or to compete with the peers, but in the process one gets detached from one’s employer.  The only thing that remains is peer pressure and money.  Till these people are at peace with their families and get sufficient opportunities for leisure and enjoyment, no loyalty should be expected from them.  Old HR principles are relevant even today. The only thing that has changed is the attitude of the employers. The companies worried about profit may give thought to this aspect.  Graduates from IIMS and IITS, are already awakening to this malaise and have started preferring jobs that do not involve working for long hours though offer lower pay packages. Time to wake up and reflect!!

Your mind is a tool you can choose to use any way you wish. The thoughts you ‘choose’ to think create the experiences you have.” ~Louise L. Hay